15 things that instantly indicate man is bad at sex.
Women shared their negative experiences of their sexual life. Married, in relationships, single — they all wrote what upsets and angers them in male behavior. I have collected all the top answers for you and highlighted women’s comments in bold text. Regular text — my comments.
1. When man does his job like a hammer. Do kisses and compliments instead, and most importantly, do it slowly!
2. Being selfish. Ignoring what woman explicitly told NOT to do.
The most popular answer. Hundreds of women have written about this in various forms. It would seem like the most obvious thing in the world, but many men forget about it. B
3. I don’t need man who is willing to “work” for 3 hours if he doesn’t care about my wishes.
4. When he gets angry if I ask him to do things differently.
You can understand the guy — it’s unpleasant when you’re in the midst of it, feeling reeeeally good. And then the woman starts scolding you, saying “No, stop! Don’t do it!” Of course it’s offensive, of course it turnes you off. But hey, listen, what if I tell you, that your woman already feels bad and already is turned off because of your actions? Should she be angry If you continue to do what you did, your partnet will be extremely unhappy in the end.
5. Horrible smells. Please wash all your BITS.
6. It’s a pity to look at a man who cannot laugh at himself and calmly accept failure.
Many of us have made all sorts of mistakes. Some people can’t start, others can’t finish. Well, in the end, the man freaks out, gets offended or angry at the woman, saying she is to blame. Why can’t you say “Haha, well, I screwed up, it happens. We’ll try agin tomorrow.” This will earn you more respect.
7. “But my ex liked it!” A funny and stupid argument that will only anger your partner.
8. To ignore my requests. Especially when he says “yeah”, and 20 seconds later he goes back doing what he was doing before.
9. To do it in silence. No emotions, no sounds.
There are studies that clearly prove that auditory stimulation helps women to finish — like, a lot, really. Whispering something in her ear, especially right at the last seconds, is a thrill for them.
10. Turn away and sleep immediately after finishing. Hey, what about me?
Classic. Which man hasn’t done this before? I definitely did. And it’s sad. This is a direct disregard for a woman as a person with her needs.
11. At least cuddle a little and lie quietly after everything.
12. No preparation, no care, no attention.
Story from a reader:
One day, my attention was sought by a colleague from work who went out of his way to win me over. Flowers, compliments, gifts, courtship. When I finally gave in and we arrived at his house, his entire behavior changed 180 degrees. He hammered me like a robot without any emotion, I was terribly uncomfortable. At first I was worried about him that he was nervous, but that’s not the case. When I said that he shouldn’t treat me like that, he started to ARGUE. And then I realized that in fact he is always like this — a selfish narcissisist.
13. Take an example from porn. This is just stupid. There’s nothing real there.
14. If I say “no” it means “NO”.
No comments here, learn to respect other people’s refusals.
15. To ignore the body language.
Not all women are brave enough to say “no” or “I don’t like it that way.” Some gals tense up and make dissatisfied sounds, it is important to keep an eye on this. If you don’t, your woman will simply ghost you in the end (and if it is your wife, she will grow cold towards you and will look for excuses not to have sex ). Help the woman, ask her questions, and monitor how relaxed or tense she is.
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